
Choosing
appropriate child care for your infant or young child can seem
as overwhelming as helping your teenager select a college or
university. As a parent, it is your responsibility to
ensure that your child is safe and happy in a child care
environment that is fun, educational, and nurturing. Read
on to learn how to go about making such an important decision.
About 70% of parents place their young children in some type of
daily care. Whether you choose in home or center based care, a
preschool, or someone else's home for your child's daily care
setting, there are specific guidelines you should follow to be
sure that your child is receiving quality, professional care
suited to his developmental needs.
Most important in determining the type of care your child needs
is to know your own child, his temperament, likes and dislikes,
health, interests, and behavior. For an infant under 1
year of age, you need to give careful attention to your child's
need to be nurtured and held, any special health needs, and the
type of person you want to care for your child during the first
year of his life. For an older child, his developing
play and learning
styles, interaction with other children, intellectual curiosity,
and need for individualized attention should be considered.
The family's own values and emotional needs should also
help to determine the kind of care they choose for their child.
Choosing child care depends on the family's comfort level and
their type of child. Some parents are overly anxious about
leaving their very young child with one person, while others
prefer individual care. But by age 3 or 4, it's good for
the child to have at least some exposure to other kids and
participate in a structured program like preschool or daycare.
Before choosing a care setting, you should be aware of
the options available and consider cost, location, and
reputation.
What to look for
The first step you should take is to make a
list of qualities you're looking for in a caregiver or day care,
such as experience, religious background, discipline beliefs,
and flexibility. Also consider any religious or cultural
beliefs that you wish a caregiver to impart to your child.
The International Nanny Association (INA) recommends that you
interview any prospective hire at least twice and that you
conduct a criminal background check, which is usually done by
most placement agencies.
Approximately 5% of the nannies applying for positions have
criminal conviction records, reports the INA. 'Undesirable care
providers tend to gravitate toward positions offered through
newspaper advertisements or to agencies who do not include
background investigations, but no combination of checks is
completely fail safe, and parents should remain vigilant when it
comes to their children's care,' the INA advises.
If you're considering a day
care center or another group setting, you should spend
some time observing the center and talking to parents with
children in the center.
Whether choosing a nanny or daycare program carefully
consider how their philosophy of child rearing, discipline, and
nurturing meshes with your personal vision of how your child
should be guided and cared for each day.
Finally, do you have a sense of trust in this person or
program? Do you believe that your child will be happy and
have the opportunity to learn and grow in this environment.
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