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Pet Meets New Baby
Help your pets adjust to the new family member

 

The miracle of childbirth will change your life forever.  And someone else's life will be changed as well, your pet's.

If a dog or cat has been the 'only child' in the household, introducing a new baby to the family can turn his or her world upside down.  It can add a tremendous amount of stress to his or her otherwise carefree and pampered life.

Being a new parent will bring hours of happiness but stressful moments as well. Planning ahead and preparing your pets for the new addition is paramount.  One of the big reasons dogs and cats end up at shelters is lack of preparation for this life-changing event.  With a little bit of effort and planning you can help your pets not only adjust to their new family member but create a loving relationship that will last a lifetime.

Here's how to make it a delightful journey.

Preparation is the key;
 
Step 1
Start preparing for "the big day" well in advance.  Gradually modifying your lifestyle will help your pets adjust.
 
Step 2
Play a tape of baby cries and other common infant noises so your pet gets familiar with the sound.
 
Step 3
Socialize your pets, ahead of time, with friends who have children and infants.
 
Step 4
Make sure your pets are spayed and neutered.  This will help reduce any aggression problems.
 
Step 5
Have all pets checked by your veterinarian and make sure their stool is checked for parasites.
 
Step 6
Practice walking your dog with a stroller before you actually have an infant around.
 
Step 7
Try establishing your new walking routine early on.  Anticipate when you will be walking your dog.
 
Step 8
Try to get your pets used to being handled with a child's heavy hand.  Try touching their ears and tails more often.
 
Step 9
Wrap a doll in towels and carry it around the house.
 
Step 10
Check your home carefully for fleas, ticks and mites.
 

Bringing baby home;
 

Step 1
Acquaint your pet with the scent of the baby by putting the baby's blanket on the ground and letting the pet sniff it.
 
Step 2
Try not to make a big deal out of the initial meeting of your baby and the pet.
 
Step 3
Take your dog for a good long walk prior to the arrival of the baby.
 
Step 4
Make sure your dog is on a leash when introducing it to the baby.
 
Step 5
NEVER leave your pet alone with the baby.  Supervise the pet while it has a chance to explore and take in the new odors and sounds.
 
Step 6
Remember, your pet, who was used to a lot of attention, will feel confused and jealous if you focus only on the new baby.  Give your pet attention and include it in all the fuss.
 
Step 7
Do not leave the door open to the nursery.  Cats will investigate and may even find the crib a cozy place to sleep.
 

This is your chance to help develop a very special bond between your pets and your baby.  Often, pets become your baby's best friend and guardian.  This friendship develops over the years, as both child and pet grow and change.  A little bit of knowledge can go a long way in creating this loving bond.

 

 
 
 

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