Keep The Magic Alive
How
to do little things to keep that spark alive
When
you've been with the same person for a while, things are taken
to a whole other level. Things can go from spicy and
exhilarating to comfy and uneventful. Guys are probably no
longer having to go out of their way to impress you, but women
get sad that things aren't as special anymore.
If you're feeling like things are boring and dull, here are some
suggestions of things to do to spice your relationship up
again...
A
note a day
Buy a pad of sticky notes. Write a couple and
keep them on hand and as your better half leaves for
the office, slip one in his/her briefcase, shirt
pocket or purse. What to write on the notes?
how about: I can't wait to see you tonight!
I will be thinking about you all day! As you
read this note, I will be preparing myself for you!
Get the idea? Come on, I know you can get
creative. The simplest of notes will work
wonders and start getting your significant other
thinking and daydreaming about you.
Petals....lots of petals
Petals make any woman, (even a man for that matter)
go nuts. Rose petals have forever been a symbol of
love and passion, and they ooze a scent that
tantalizes your senses. Here are just a few
ways you can use petals...
* Put on top of ceiling fans and turn the fan
on as your partner walks in.
* Bring some to a restaurant and put them on
the table.
* Inside an envelope with a card or letter.
* Floating in a bowl of water, with or without
floating candles.
* Placed in the book your sweetheart is
reading.
* Surrounding your partner with petals while
he or she is sleeping.
* In a crock pot with a little water for a
beautiful smell as they walk in.
* Surround the bath tub with petals and run a
hot bath.
Candles
When matched up with rose petals you are in for the
romantic ride of your life! There is just something
about a candle lit room that sets the atmosphere for
romance. Set a beautiful table, two placemats,
matching napkins and all, and bring dinner.
Watch the mood lighten, the smile comes, and the
night evolves into something special
Massage Set the mood, low
lights, candles and soft music. Take your
time, don't rush it, make sure your partner is
relaxed and sooth away any stresses.
Get a simple Body oil (Neutrogena has one that is a
light sesame formula, it smells great and warms the
body and hands). See where the evening leads!
Date night Organize a date night regularly, not once
a year but at least twice a month. Get out
without the kids and treat yourselves to some
romantic yummy food and alone time ... remember what
it used to be like to date!
Keeping the magic alive will help you regain or
develope a lasting relationship with your partner.
A good relationship is dependent on good communication,
love, honesty and trust. Keeping the relationship
spicy can also help when you feel as though your
relationship has fallen into a rut.
When
you've been with the same person for a while, things are taken
to a whole other level. Things can go from spicy and
exhilarating to comfy and uneventful. Guys are probably no
longer having to go out of their way to impress you, but women
get sad that things aren't as special anymore.
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