
Mothers
that have been practicing yoga regularly before the birth will
undoubtedly be ready to practice yoga a little earlier than
those that did not practice much during the pregnancy.
But whatever circumstances you find yourself in there is
no time like the present to start to cultivate a regular yoga
practice. Yoga is a gentle way to initiate the healing of a
body that has just experienced one of the greatest changes to
ever happen to a person.
Breastfeeding can be a challenging time for a new mother
but also a time when a yoga practice can be initiated. When I
was breast feeding both of my children I found myself sitting on
my blue sofa for much of each day, feeding my beloved and
wondering when I would get off this sofa!!! I felt my bottom
would not be getting any firmer or higher during this stage but
I proved myself wrong.
It was during this time that I started to activate udiana
bandha, the hollowing of the lower belly. Sitting on the sofa,
feeding away I started to bring my navel to my spine and then to
scoop out my lower belly and direct my breath to my chest
cavity. Instantly, this extended my spine and corrected my
hunched over posture. This also helped to open my heart,
amazing at such a time of unabashed joy!! Wow!! This is a
simple way to start and does not need much fitness but what a
help to a woman that has just birthed a baby through her birth
canal, her vagina!
Focusing on drawing the naval to the spine and then
scooping out the lower belly is a way to work the pelvic floor
without even realizing it. I found that when I actually thought
about pelvic floor exercises I felt unenthusiastic and depressed
about the long way back I had to go. But concentrating on
something different worked fantastically for me. I had such a
huge amount of time each day feeding that even if I only did it
for a little bit of each feed it amounted to a lot of time each
day. I started to feel my tummy coming back to itself and my
spirits lifted.
After a few weeks of this udiana bandha work, just
sitting and feeding and loving my baby and working my lower
belly I attempted a few yoga postures.
Finding the right time is a new thing for a new mother.
My babies would both get up early and do their thing for a
couple of hours and then go back to sleep. This first sleep I
would spend with my husband, hanging out and having our time.
The second sleep would come around lunch time when my husband
was at work and it was during this time that I started my
practice again.
Just a few postures to begin with, Suryanamaskara A and B
felt quite a lot at the start. I would do what I could until my
baby awoke and then carry on with the day. I feel this was a
good way to regulate how much I attempted to do. The baby would
only sleep for so long and that was perfect. I found that the
yoga helped me accept the changes that occurred at this time of
my life. I no longer had the freedom to just drop everything
and go off as I was able to do before this time. Fighting that
was futile but something that came up for me and the yoga helped
me move through these feelings.
After more time and practice I started to practice yoga
in their afternoon sleeps if I felt like it. This was a
beautiful time in my life and I thank the yoga for helping me
accept what was. This time with a tiny baby passes so quickly
and enjoying and nurturing it will be the best thing for the
mother and baby.
So quickly I was able to leave my baby with their daddy
and go off to yoga class in the morning for a couple of hours.
Mummy time, great for me and a delightful way for my husband to
bond with our children deeply. I feel my children and their
father have a relationship that goes beyond the average
father/child connection and I am sure that yoga helped that
become so.
Yoga has totally assisted me in becoming the mother I am
today and I am aware and grateful for that process. Every woman
has her own path through motherhood, some more easy than
others. I feel that the practice of yoga helped me accept who I
am and in turn let my children be free within themselves, become
happier and more confident children.
By
Ohm shanti
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