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lillylove123
02-13-2008, 03:18 PM
so DH and i took the DS to my aunts this weekend. she has 2 kids. one is 6 the other is 3.
and my husband said that was too far apart. all kids were basically 3 years apart. and he said that it would be easier having two kids 3 years old then all spread out like that. . .. .

i want my son to have siblings close in age. but really when is a good time to start trying.

i guess whens the easiest?? i had very bad morning sickness. thats what im afraid of. being sicks with a child so young. i almost just want to wait till my son is like 10 HAHAHA.
just kidding.

but really im just looking for opinions. u know, something to take to the husband when we sit town and talk about our decision.

it would give me some ammo if i have examples from other peoples situations. but ya i know all kids and parents are different.

Joyto5
02-13-2008, 03:58 PM
I, personally, have lots of different spacings between our kids. 15 months, 18 months, 3 years and 5 years. I would MUCH prefer to have 2 close together. Our middle child is litterally the middle child. 3 years before him and 5 after. He has a rough time fitting in with the other 2 sets. We wanted to have another with in 18 month for him but it just wasn't ment to be.

I'm not going to say it was easy. It is worth it now tho.