stalk my chart -- encouragment needed!

[cream_city]

This is my first month TTC, so I know I'm being ridiculously impatient. I'm 35, and I know this could take many months -- hopefully I'll be more relaxed next month.

But I'm 11dpo, and my LP is usually 11-12 days long. I tested yesterday, at 10 DPO and then this morning at 11 DPO with FRER -- and negative!

But if you look at my chart, (it's on page 2 of the chart thread) I've had a HUGE temperature spike, and cramps on 9DPO and 10 DPO. And I hardly get cramps even with AF, certainly not until after AF starts.

I am so disappointed with the BFN today -- it should have been + if I'm pregnant, right? FRER is supposed to be very sensitive.

HELP!

[Elizabethdaisy]

your chart looks good it still might be early so sending lots of baby vibes your way.

[OJosMom]

Yup, I agree with Elizabeth...looking good, but could still be early. Try to relax and then test again tomorrow morning!

[cream_city]

Do you think I should test tomorrow, or wait? I keep going back and forth. If I get a -HPT tomorrow does that pretty much mean I'm out of the game?

[busy_i_am2007]

You not out of the game until af shows. I would test again either tomorrow or the following day. Good luck!

[Elizabethdaisy]

I am kinda in the same boat but not too sure when I ovulated. I keep telling myself its not over until af comes. I would just wait a few more days then test thats what I am doing. good luck hun.

[OJosMom]

Still looking good...even triphasic! Hoping for the best!

[cream_city]

I haven't tested today.. I really "feel" pregnant and didn't want to face a more definitive BFN. So AF is due tomorrow; I am going to try and test in the evening if AF hasn't arrived.

Do you think I should go with FMU tomorrow morning, or wait until evening. If I wait until the evening, how long do you think I need to hold for?

[Elizabethdaisy]

I personally would do FMU. good luck hun.