JulieBaby
06-07-2008, 08:13 PM
I need some opinions on this, someone to either tell me im right in my thinking or to give me a slap in the face and tell me I am so wrong.
Here is the situation:
I know of this woman, not much older than me with 3 kids. Her oldest is 2 1/2, 10-11months the second and a few days old the 3rd. She has had problems carrying her children to term, being born at approximately 35 weeks, 33 weeks and 26 weeks or so this last one.
She could care less about these children, seriously. Her two older children are always with someone else, and her youngest she has only seen a few times. When she was released from the hospital, she opted for going out partying instead of visiting her son in the NICU.
Today, same thing.
She is all about sleeping around (even though she has a boyfriend), drnking and partying. She is not a mom to those kids at all. The only times I have seen her with those children, they are crying and screaming hysterically in the stroller.
Why does a person like this choose to keep on having more kids? Apparently her OB was leaning on her getting her tubes tied, because of her high risk history or whatever but she said no.
Why are people like this? Would 'you' keep bringing unhealthy children into this world? (Her oldest son has slight mental issues, her middle child motor delays, the youngest an unending amount of health issues) If she were a caring mother I may understand, but why keep bringing these kids into the world if all you want todo is partuy?
To give a clearer picture, im talking about the woman DH cheated on me with.
Here is the situation:
I know of this woman, not much older than me with 3 kids. Her oldest is 2 1/2, 10-11months the second and a few days old the 3rd. She has had problems carrying her children to term, being born at approximately 35 weeks, 33 weeks and 26 weeks or so this last one.
She could care less about these children, seriously. Her two older children are always with someone else, and her youngest she has only seen a few times. When she was released from the hospital, she opted for going out partying instead of visiting her son in the NICU.
Today, same thing.
She is all about sleeping around (even though she has a boyfriend), drnking and partying. She is not a mom to those kids at all. The only times I have seen her with those children, they are crying and screaming hysterically in the stroller.
Why does a person like this choose to keep on having more kids? Apparently her OB was leaning on her getting her tubes tied, because of her high risk history or whatever but she said no.
Why are people like this? Would 'you' keep bringing unhealthy children into this world? (Her oldest son has slight mental issues, her middle child motor delays, the youngest an unending amount of health issues) If she were a caring mother I may understand, but why keep bringing these kids into the world if all you want todo is partuy?
To give a clearer picture, im talking about the woman DH cheated on me with.