am i putting too much stress on 2yr to wean

[TreeSydney]

i had not planned on nursing this long, but am so happy i have. Daughter is happy, healthy and awesome. Was hoping she would wean herself (she stopped sucking her thumb on her own at 16months). She will be 2 next month. I have been telling her as gently as i can that we are cutting down on the nursing sessions, but i feel guilty that she thinks i am pulling away. The last couple of days she is very possessive of me - have not had this issue as of yet - only wants mommy to do things for her. Help - let me know if i am doing the right things!!

[Jacksmommy]

I wouldn't assume that her having a mommy preference right now is due to the fact that you plan to start weaning, but I wouldn't rule it out either. My son often prefers me, and he still nurses whenever he wants. Sometimes children just prefer their mothers. About weaning - have you started reducing her sessions?

[Agog]

I personally wouldn't "discuss" it with her. If you make it a big deal, it will be a bigger deal to her. If she starts asking questions, then give her the shortest answer possible (not being mean or anything, but again, like it's not a big deal). Keep in mind that while your child could be the smartest kid on earth, at two years old, their ability to understand explanations is minimum. Too much explaining can cause more anxiety. Just be confident with your decision, and give her as much cuddling and love as she needs during the transition, to let her know YOU are not withdrawing, but don't be too dramatic with it.

[Darianna]

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I say that you are doing the right thing, only let her stop!! Offer her a reward for not having to nurse that day! !Make the reward awesome for her age!!

Good luck