View Full Version : Does your SO/DH kiss you goodnight every night?
curiouslurker
06-22-2008, 07:23 PM
Just wondering
bocarioja
06-22-2008, 07:27 PM
Even though I answered no, I know in my heart that Dh would like to kiss me everynight. He just can't with what he does for a living. It doesn't mean I feel any less loved or appreciated.
still_me
06-22-2008, 07:31 PM
Yes, the man will kiss me as much as he can. If he walks into the kitchen and I am in there he will kiss me 80% of the time as he is walking out. We are a kissy bunch. We aren't like that in public or if others are around though.
babymakes4
06-22-2008, 07:34 PM
I can't say every night. We try, but sometimes things get so hectic with the kids and everything. More often than not I plan to lay with the children until they fall asleep and then come back downstairs, but I end up falling asleep with them.
Rizzae2
06-22-2008, 07:56 PM
Kissy bunch here too.. we um.. do something else every night too ;)
Elizabethdaisy
06-22-2008, 08:01 PM
yes almost every night.
RaisingThemLeft
06-22-2008, 08:04 PM
Yes, pretty much. We're a pretty affectionate family all the way around. My 8 yr old ds still climbs into my lap for hugs and kisses still. That's how we roll.
QuiltyConscience
06-22-2008, 08:05 PM
He gets in smooches whenever he can. Even when I am half asleep at 5:50 when he leaves for work.
JudyJudyJudy
06-22-2008, 08:13 PM
No.
jaelwoman
06-22-2008, 08:13 PM
We always kiss goodnight before bed. Even when he was working really late and I fell asleep, he would come over to my side of the bed and kiss me goodnight.
Babyblue
06-22-2008, 08:40 PM
well evening are usualy my busy time, cleaning and finishing chores, I crawl into bed a little after dh, poke him to remind him to pray before we go to sleep, we pray, he kisses me and falls back into his coma like sleep.
I think it is now just a habit from early in our marriage that he does no matter what a turd he has been lately.
Carolina
06-22-2008, 08:58 PM
Yes.
firewife
06-22-2008, 09:08 PM
Not every night.
Meredith
06-22-2008, 09:14 PM
Yup. We rarely go to bed at the same time (or even in the same room, since DS2 was born), but he sneaks in kisses, hugs, and random boob grabs whenever he can.
BeanBabies
06-22-2008, 09:15 PM
Yes. Everyone gets a kiss goodnight.
Dh and I also kiss each time one of us leaves the house. No good-byes/goodnights are allowed without a kiss.
sarabina
06-22-2008, 09:42 PM
Yes goodnight, every night (unless we're arguing) and goodbye in the mornings.
RedheadbyChoice
06-22-2008, 09:43 PM
No, he doesn't, but he does tell me good night, every single night. And 'love you' at the end of every phone call, unless he's in the presence of his boss/coworkers, and then he'll say 'uh huh, me too' when I say it. :)
Justicedog
06-22-2008, 09:46 PM
Yes. Everyone gets a kiss goodnight.
Dh and I also kiss each time one of us leaves the house. No good-byes/goodnights are allowed without a kiss.
This is how I want it, perhaps if I had a different husband.
My answer is no though. He'll rarely kiss me, unless he's wanting some. He'll throw in random boob grabs, which annoy me.
MiMi_of_4
06-22-2008, 10:07 PM
every morning, all through the day, and every night; lots of "I love yous," are thrown in, too ~ when either of us leaves, ending phone conversations, for shits and giggles
He also affectionately pats me on the rear ~ we're still lovey dovey after 26+ years!
Darcy_
06-22-2008, 10:27 PM
Everynight, and everytime one of us leaves the house.
Kristen
06-22-2008, 10:31 PM
No, not every night.
dalurker
06-22-2008, 11:33 PM
Everynight, and everytime one of us leaves the house.
Yes, this.
Unless I have a cold sore. Then I get a ritualistic goodnight/goodbye handshake or pat on the shoulder."lol9"
EvilAmy
06-23-2008, 12:02 AM
Yep all the time. Can't keep my tongue out his throat.
Joyto5
06-23-2008, 12:19 AM
Yes, I'm going to miss him when he leaves for Hawaii on the 29th.
HIJKMommy
06-23-2008, 07:10 AM
Almost every night. I work weekend nights but he kisses me goodbye. We are very affectionate. I wake in the mornings to him kissing me goodbye as hes leaving for work. We are very touchy touchy. Sometimes he coops a feel or smacks my butt too.
kohlby
06-23-2008, 07:12 AM
Yes. Both the kids have their kissing rituals at their bedtimes, so there's lots of four way and three way and even two way kisses then. Plus, we make sure to get in a kiss when I go to bed too. (I go to bed before DH).
Jacksmommy
06-23-2008, 07:55 AM
Yes.
Violet
06-23-2008, 09:28 AM
Yes, every night....and every morning before he leaves to work.
StElmosFire
06-23-2008, 09:29 AM
I haven't kissed DH goodnight in years. Heck I barely even kiss him at all come to think of it :(
AuLait
06-23-2008, 09:30 AM
No
2much2luv
06-23-2008, 09:36 AM
Yes, and every morning before he leaves the house.
vulturemom
06-23-2008, 10:10 AM
No Dh works nights so he is gone over half the nights when I go to bed.
When he gets home (usually at about 6 A.M) he kisses me but, I think that would be considered a good morning kiss.
J-A-N-E
06-23-2008, 10:16 AM
We have a sign above our bed tat reads "always kiss me goodnight"....when he is home and not working the night shift ~ we kiss goodnight everynight.
Olianna
06-23-2008, 10:20 AM
No
Nipple_nectar
06-23-2008, 11:20 AM
We retire to bed together always. SOmetimes we do fall asleep without a kiss. He always wakes and kisses me goodbye:)
VegasLactivist
06-23-2008, 11:22 AM
Kissy bunch here too.. we um.. do something else every night too ;)
Ahhhh, new relationships. Lemme know if ya still get it every night 16 years later.. ;)
SueDid
06-23-2008, 12:24 PM
I said yes, though there is the occasional night where one of us falls asleep before the kiss.
We always hug and kiss goodbye when he leaves for work, too, and it usually involved a butt cheek squeeze.
Everyone who's home at the time gets a kiss, hug, or some other sign of affection when dh leaves for work.
Jacksmommy
06-23-2008, 01:07 PM
We have a sign above our bed tat reads "always kiss me goodnight"....when he is home and not working the night shift ~ we kiss goodnight everynight.
We have that sign, too. I used to have to remind dh that kisses goodnight were something he had to always remember.
pawprint
06-23-2008, 01:12 PM
Not every night.
JenniferH
06-23-2008, 01:18 PM
Either at bedtime or when I leave for work (I work in the evenings and he is sound asleep when I come home). He also kisses me when he leaves for work in the mornings - although if it is really early I don't always remember.
catkrazy99
06-23-2008, 01:24 PM
I answered yes b/c it is almost every night. Every once in a while he is sick or I'm not at home when he goes to bed so then he doesn't but that is very rare.
SarahFae
06-23-2008, 09:51 PM
No, he doesn't like kissing in any way, shape, or form. I'm lucky I ever get kissed.
tabatha
06-24-2008, 12:56 AM
yes
Babyhellfire
06-24-2008, 01:24 AM
k... I have no idea how to answer.
We kiss all the time.
We kiss goodbye every time..
but, we don't always go to bed at the same time ,and we don't have a like a routine "goodnight kiss"...thou we probably do kiss at some point just before bed with few exceptions.
would that be a no?
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