I miss her so bad [Archive]

_Tonks_

10-30-2007, 08:44 PM

I was going through her memory box and I just want her back not a box. I'm always unhappy I might laugh or play but i'm Never happy. Sorry bloggy.

Leaf_Racer

10-30-2007, 08:57 PM

I'm so so sorry Pam. I understand 100% I will look at Calypso's ashes and just break down because I DID want her home....but not in a box. I want HER.

Missing sweet Princess Avonlea. Please go easy on yourself and I'm here if you need

_Tonks_

10-30-2007, 10:23 PM

Thank you. Its been 10 months tomorrow and it feels like yesterday.

Leaf_Racer

10-31-2007, 12:12 AM

*hugs* I've been told by many many people that it will feel like that for the first few years. My friend lost her son over 2 years ago and still has moments of such intense grief if takes her breath away. Tomorrow on Samhain I'll light a candle for sweet avonlea

busy_i_am2007

10-31-2007, 08:25 AM

Hugs to you, I'm so sorry!

Kristen

10-31-2007, 10:21 AM

Big hugs to both of you.
There is no "time limit" on when you are suppose to "get over" your feelings. You lost a child, that deserves as much time as you need to feel comfortable with.
I also have a memory box for Scott, I look through it on occasion, and when I do I wonder why I did...the box just isn't good enough.

mommyof2sons

10-31-2007, 11:46 AM

I am sorry. Hugs for all of you

Kimberly

10-31-2007, 11:53 AM

I'm so sorry. :(

momofeddie

10-31-2007, 12:15 PM

I agree that there isn't any time limit. I met my husband five years ago, four years after he lost his first son and his pain was still raw. He cries less frequently now, but there are always those unexpected moments that remind him of his pain. I do think that there is hope, though, as I believe he is able to be happy again. Give yourself room to continue to grieve and share. Peace be with you.

Dawn

andrewsmom

11-02-2007, 12:33 AM

I am so sorry for your loss!

mayo

09-29-2008, 11:43 AM

I understand how you feel...
There's always a purpose and a reason for everything...
It will be better to have joy in whatever circumstance...

Beautifuldisaster2003

09-30-2008, 02:12 PM

im so sorry. thinking of both of your angles often.

jodyvo

09-30-2008, 08:38 PM

I lost my son 1 year and 8 months ago. The grief can still be every intense. Life become a new kind of normal. I am sorry you daughter isn't in your arms where she belongs
It just isn't fair :(

timothymoses

12-02-2008, 02:29 AM

I am so sorry for your lost son... so pity of you...

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nursingmotherof2

12-14-2008, 02:10 PM

iam sorry to hear all of your loss i no how you all feel my sons father died when he was 1 years old. his dad was 28 and he died dec 21 this year will be 3 years he will be gone. i had made a box for lenox so when he gets older he will have some type of memory of him.GOD always gives a good mothers a second chance to be a mother again and he gave me that chance with my daughter. god bless you all

DeDe

12-14-2008, 03:01 PM

In Oct I had RJ, and on the 9th of this month it was 2 years from the day that i had the miscarriage, I felt so guilty because I was morning the baby (it was too young to know if we had a little girl or boy) and I had a very sweet baby in my arms. When I talked to my husband, I had a realization, we have two kids it's just that one is in heaven. A friend from work told me that you never get over it just gets easier to live with. I'm still waiting.