Why are men sooo difficult

[nicholasmommy6]

So I was dating this guy for a little bit (few weeks.) Everything was going pretty good except for the fact he was hard to read. I told him he was hard to read and that i would let him take the lead. Well of course this was last wednesday and I haven't heard from him! Well, I got a quick text from him Sunday but that was it. Now I am wondering if I scared him away? or is it the classic "he's just not that into you"??? What do you guys think?

ARRR, I HATE dating! Thanks ladies

[Sunnie]

I say this with all due respect but I think maybe you should just stop worrying about men and concentrate on your baby. I wouldn't even normally say this except the only things I've ever seen you post about is men and dating.

[Tweet]

I would really have no clue because it's been so long. I do remember a looooooong time ago that DH and his buddies used to think not calling for 3 or 4 days made good sense because they saw it on the movie Swingers. rolls eyes.

[hidesome]

So I was dating this guy for a little bit (few weeks.) Everything was going pretty good except for the fact he was hard to read. I told him he was hard to read and that i would let him take the lead. Well of course this was last wednesday and I haven't heard from him! Well, I got a quick text from him Sunday but that was it. Now I am wondering if I scared him away? or is it the classic "he's just not that into you"??? What do you guys think?

ARRR, I HATE dating! Thanks ladies

If I were him, the first thing I would think about your take-the-lead line is that it is a cop out - not exactly 'scary'. Having said that, if he wants to keep seeing you, 99% of men will call. Personally, waiting 4 days doesn't exactly sound definitive.