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sarahplustwo
03-11-2009, 10:23 PM
I had my two little boys very young...one in high school and i had several mothers and a few fathers judge me. I have only been with one man which is now my husband and their daughters and sons had several sexual partners. Did anyone else face this and what did you do?
JaneDohl
05-30-2009, 09:09 AM
Hi!

Im 17 and pregnant with my first baby. I have been with my fiance for over a couple years now and havnt been with anyone else, but still parents judge me very harshly, especially in the church.
I even have enough money to care for him and am backed by two wonderful familes, but still they thumb thier little noses.
So yes, I can compleetly relate!
At first, I avoided everyone and then I just got mad and had the "screw you" attitude...but then I realized that those people just dont matter. What matters is my family and my health, mental as well. I cant have those people drag me down, especially when they dont even know my situation well (though theyd LOVE to think they did)
Im just focusing on how happy I am and how beautiful my baby is!
I hope this helped a little :)
kimberly4562
06-15-2009, 09:32 AM
I had my two little boys very young...one in high school and i had several mothers and a few fathers judge me. I have only been with one man which is now my husband and their daughters and sons had several sexual partners. Did anyone else face this and what did you do?

If ever they judge you, especially verbally, just ask them how many people they had sex with hen they were teens? Or just leaving would be the best thing in retrospect because they do net even deserve any kind of explanation from you. I fully support abstinence, but it is completely against human nature, and most girl's think this is the only way to be really loved by somebody. While most of the teen population are having sex, only some get pregnant. The 'lucky' ones don't, and terribly some get abortions.
I am so glad you had your baby girl, I am 19 and I had Isaac right after I turned 17 and I am married to the Dad not too. Even if he hadn't stayed, I know I would love having him on my own, he means so much to me.
You can definitely read my blog as a young teen mother, I am excited about you choice(:
http://yovia.com/blogs/kimberly/