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PoopLoops
05-27-2009, 04:36 PM
My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't know what to do.

Maret00
05-27-2009, 06:20 PM
Support her. And encorage breastfeeding.

kimberly4562
06-15-2009, 10:42 AM
keep it(:

lilpapasmom
04-30-2010, 04:07 PM
I know your scared but I just had a baby and Im 31 and I was scared too! You both should discuss what you wants are for now and the future! This is my 3rd child... my boys are 13 and 11. I was 17 when i had my first son, Yes its hard, But very rewarding!!!! These are Gods blessings, and things happen for a reason.

Whatever you choose to do, I hope you decide to parent but its not my decision or anyone elses! don't listen to anyone triyng to force their opinion, Its your decision!!!!!!

We are all scared to have babies, yes its natural, but still a lil scary!

keep me posted, Id like to follow your story. If you want to add me as a friend or send me a message feel free!!!!

Tell your girlfriend about this site it may help!

best wishes......

StillSingingMom
04-30-2010, 09:42 PM
I wasn't even going to comment, but it's true, fathers are all scared when babies arrive in their lives.

My husband was forty four when our first baby showed up and I'm pretty sure he was terrified.

I'm not trying to say that you shouldn't be scared- I'm just saying that it's natural. I think fear is a reasonable reaction to understanding that you are going to be a father, because that is a huge deal.

Your lady and your baby will need you more than anyone has ever needed you. It's scary, but you have an opportunity to be a real man now.

MrsKitty
05-01-2010, 12:48 AM
Pretty sure this is a troll

lilpapasmom
05-03-2010, 10:26 AM
troll???

cuddlycutebaby
05-28-2010, 06:00 AM
if you both want the child then its great. you may consult a gynae. if you don't want the child then go for abortion but don't forget the fetus is also a living human.

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NormanLUnderwood2010
07-22-2010, 07:48 PM
Don't be scared do your responsibility.. As what Maret00 posted "support her"..
Go go go for it! You both can do it..

torinbaby
09-24-2010, 09:56 AM
All that you can do is be there for her. Go to the doctor appointments together. My babies father and I were together for three years before we concieved our son and he cheated on me when I was pregnant and I decided we couldn't be together anymore. He has barely seen his son and now that he sees another man is stepping into my sons life he realizes how much he is missing. Be there for her, you won't regret it and will love your child unconditionaly.

pamelamalcolm
01-19-2011, 09:57 PM
Be with your girlfriend and I hope you don't consider abortion. A baby is a blessing. We hope to hear from you soon and we want to know how did your girlfriend's pregnancy go.

Kelleeann
02-02-2011, 05:31 PM
Be there for her, my sons father was not there for me & being pregnant alone was one of the hardest things for me!

natalyaa
03-06-2011, 07:57 AM
Hello,
Yes encourage her and support in all the things and be always with her. everything is gonna be fine.

good luck!!

pamelamalcolm
03-08-2011, 05:54 AM
Well, congratulations!!! :) It's perfectly normal to be nervous especially if it's your first time. That nervousness and worries will go away as soon as you see your child. :) Good luck with your girlfriend's pregnancy and be a good and responsible father for your child!

Lorenzen
05-03-2011, 02:12 AM
If she is pregnant , then U must support her... Try being with her and make her realize that You are with her...
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SaraEEKS_
07-28-2011, 11:11 PM
Well I'm a teen mom, and I have kept my baby girl, with all the support from my family. :) & I am VERY happy and glad that I kept her, to think that I would never had wanted her is insane.

sabysmith
10-15-2011, 08:05 AM
There are plenty of opportunities out there; other than bar-tending or waitressing: that are both satisfying, relaxing, and provide sufficient renumeration to provide for a family if both parties are actively working full-time. Research your local classifieds; there are plenty of great online job posting websites both regional, provincial or state-wide, and even worldwide. Don't ever cut yourself short, always strive to be happy: otherwise, why are you living?