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randomwriter
07-02-2009, 03:03 AM
Hi I am...Cee you can call me! I am fourteen almost fifteen! I recently got pregnant. Four months along with...triplets. I am super nervous&I don't know what to do...help!?!

randomwriter
07-02-2009, 03:04 AM
&That's the father^

whitnessforhim
07-02-2009, 02:04 PM
What kind of support do you have around you?

randomwriter
07-02-2009, 11:41 PM
I have some support. My dad mom the dad&his dad&other family. That's it. Just family.

Jen0608
07-17-2009, 10:07 AM
Oh, you're so young to get pregnant and to be a mother? Are you ready to take the responsibility?

Maret00
07-17-2009, 11:30 PM
have you thought about adoption?

laangelitalokita
07-27-2009, 12:02 AM
I have 7 week old twins. If you're planning on keeping them (which I'm assuming you are because although other people are mentioning adoption, I didn't see anything like that in your post) my best piece of advice would be to get them on the same schedule. If one is hungry, feed all of them. Also, breastmilk is best, but with three it might be most manageable to express milk with a breast pump and bottle feed. If you feel like you don't have enough milk, you can use your breastmilk mixed with formula. Best of luck to you and congrats

Angel87
03-02-2010, 12:53 AM
Babies are blessings. Just keep it. It may be hard now during their baby period, but it's worth it all because the love of a mother covers anything. Just cherish the moment. This problem was given to you because you can make it. And I definitely agree that you can! ;)

XxX_Cath_XxX
03-02-2010, 01:20 PM
Babies are blessings yes but at such a young age it can be really really hard. It is totally up to you because this is a very personal subject. There are many different options, keep obviously, abortion and adoption but you can change your mind after a month I think and if you kept and then decided that it was to hard you can always give them up for adoption then. However if you go with trying first and then decide to give them up for adoption please make sure the babys are to young to understand because that can cause alot of psychological damage. Keep us updated. Good Luck with your decision. Cath x

ambercat
03-03-2010, 11:06 PM
Hi, I just wanted to say I'm a soon to be teen mom as well, I'll be 18 right before my son arrives. It sounds like you've got a pretty good support system, my advice is to lean on them when you need it... It's gonna be hard at times, you'll definately need them. Dealing with triplets can be difficult but its all in how you learn to handle it... Just have faith in yourself, never doubt that you cant do it. Are you using Wic or any other forms of help during your pregnancy?... If so you can get a breast pump through them, and if you plan to formula feed they also vouchers for formula... although breastmilk is really great for multiples since they are more likely to be born premature/underweight at birth.Goodluck to you... just remember what ever you decide be confident in yourself.

kamano
03-24-2010, 08:30 PM
Wow! Sounds like your gonna have your hands full! I just wanted to congratulate you. I was a teen mom and don't regret a day of it. Aloha.

cuddlycutebaby
05-30-2010, 12:34 PM
thats what you should be.
super nervous...!
early age pregnancy can be very complicated for both mum and child.
and you are prego with triplets. you should really take care of your diet very much...

sabysmith
10-15-2011, 08:03 AM
This can sometimes be quite difficult because let's face it; we don't all have the ideal employer, friends, family, education requirements or financial situation to provide for these healthy environments. Trust me, whatever is causing you that sort of pain, it is not worth sticking around.