Dont know what to do!

[XxX_Cath_XxX]

Hey guys I am new to this so I dont know any of you lot. I am a mum to a beautiful little girl named Leigh who is now nearly 1. She is my life but I had to go through alot for her, basically her father told me to eather get rid of her or he would leave and I just couldnt do it she was a little part of me like and then my parents kicked me out so I had to find a council house and we had to live of benifits, well my situation hasnt changed but my aunti babysat for me about 2-3 months ago so I could go out for my 17th birthday. I was having a good night out, well desereved with my mates. However the next day I woke up in a strange appartment and apparently I had my drink spiked and this person slept with me. I am usually regular with my periods so when I noticed I hadnt had one I took a test and it turns out that I am pregnant. I dont know what to do because I dont think I can get rid but would it be fair for me to bring it up in these situations? Please someone help me. Cath x

[XxX_Cath_XxX]

I dont think I can get rid! I was just looking at the scan pic I got today (14 weeks) and it looks like a real baby now and I just thought that if I did it for Leigh then I can do it for my next little baby. Do you think I am doing the right thing? Please comment. x

[StillSingingMom]

Only you can decide.

If someone spiked your drink and slept with you, honey, that's rape. Have you thought about pressing charges? Or at least finding some safer mates to hang around with.

The situation you bring your babies up in is up to you. What do you want their lives to be like? What are you going to do to create that?

[elvispham]

He is irresponsible father, you should have lawyer or relatives, close friends for consultancy.

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[Prettyskittle82]

Definately press charges. And I agree, even thought I don't completely agree with abortion, it is up to you. I'm so sorry that you've been put in this position.

[XxX_Cath_XxX]

Hey all, thanks so much for the support I have finally decided to keep, I just cant think of getting rid of it. As for pressing charges I had confided in my best friend who couldnt come that night and we have been to the police together and I have an appointment to see an officer to see if they can identify the person I am describing I have really close mates but we were all hammered that night so no one really knew what was going on. As for my childrens life stillsingingmom I want them to grow up possitive, confident and polite, I want them to be very good chi;dren who know how to respect people and I also want them to know they always have someone to confide in and I will always be there to hear their worries, dreams etc and if they end up pregnant like I did they will have constant support. Thanks for all the support again you lot are so great. x