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Breastfeeding Is Not Always Easy

by Tina Dala

As a new mother, of a pre-term baby born via C-section, in 2002, I faced an uphill battle with not only breastfeeding but milk-production. Not being allowed to even hold her after delivery at 9pm, until the next morning, because the hospital was under staffed, and having her tube-fed formula-against my wishes, affected my milk-production as much as having every nurse giving me conflicting advice as to how to breastfeed and to use, or not use a nipple-shield, and affected my confidence in my body's ability. This resulted in the use of Domperidon, a drug used to boost lactation, as well as a mild case of postpartum depression.

After my recovery, I had to leave my daughter in the care of the NICU for 3 weeks! I would arrive at the hospital every morning and spend the whole day with her learning to breastfeed and pumping a storage for the night in hopes she would not be given more formula-although I know she was because I had to wean her from it once we were home, and it influenced a dramatic incidence of colic, for several months. An over-production of milk and a blocked duct still did not deter me from breastfeeding exclusively. I was determined to bond with my baby since I was deprived of it immediately after her birth. Despite all of these very negative and obviously distressing issues, I persevered and breastfed her for 4 years!

I began my practice as a birth doula, exclusively attending births, for 3 years, (2003 to 2005) before incorporating postpartum work, into my practice. I assisted many women, in that time, to establish breastfeeding, and helped them to troubleshoot in the early postpartum period. I referred many women to Lactation Consultants if their breast feeding issues were not within my scope of practice. I am so proud to know most of them breastfed exclusively for at least 6 months to one year, and some continued to 2 years of age, along with solids.

In 2005 I attended a workshop entitled: Breastfeeding When Special Care is needed through La Leche League with Kay Hoover. It was extremely informative as to different breastfeeding issues such as nipple shape and size, and various factors influencing babies needs.

In 2007 I attended the 12th Annual Breastfeeding Education Day at Douglas College in B.C. which featured Barbara Wilson-Clay speaking on Breastfeeding, Informed Consent, and the Issue of Guilt, and Rethinking the Vocabulary of Latch-On. I researched the WHO paper: Breastfeeding: how to support success. Which I highly recommend to all.

This year I attended: Preserving the Simplicity of Breastfeeding in a Complex World: A New Paradigm for Depressiojn, Stress and Postpartum Healing, given by Kathleen Kendall-Tackett, and La Leche League Canada. Kathleen enlightened her listeners as to the connections between breastfeeding and Postpartum Depression. A very informative and educational lecture, indeed.

As a mother and a professional birth attendant, I have seen the correlation between epidural use and delayed milk-production and latching issues and drug use making babies slower to breastfeed. With formula companies knocking on your door the first day of your baby's birth posing as a welcoming committee, or a kind nurse who pushes you into using formula touting its ease and convenience, is there any wonder why women with a history of depression, or not, would feel inadequate and frustrated, and give-up the struggle to breastfeed?

As a certified Lamaze childbirth educator I include a two-hour breastfeeding segment in all my series. I know how important it is to let soon-to-be parents know all moms and babies need to learn to breastfeed. Although it is natural, there are many factors that can influence successful breastfeeding, and sometimes it is hard work. Uninterrupted bonding time immediately after the birth, for about an hour, is very important. Patience, perseverance, and accessible, non-judgmental community support are key to success. Breastfeeding support is crucial. Breastfeeding decreases negative mood and also protects babies from depression while moms stabilize during the postpartum period.

With todays epidural rates, in North America, being so dangerously high, I fear new parents are in danger of not receiving information as to how valuable and essential breastfeeding is for themselves and for their baby's well-being, and normal, healthy development.

Women need good support during labor to try to avoid interventions and C-sections. Depression in the 3rd trimester and postpartum is associated with higher rates of epidural, cesareans, instrumental vaginal deliveries (vacuum extraction or forceps) and NICU admissions. Women and their partners need good support during and after their birth experiences.

Birth doulas form a relationship of trust and educate their clients as to how natural birth practices are achieved, and why they are important. They are a continuous form of non-judgmental support throughout labor, no matter how it goes, and assist with breastfeeding immediately after the baby is born, for up to two hours. They meet with the new family, at least once, to de-brief their birth experiences and assist them with their transition into parenthood.

Postpartum doulas also assist with breastfeeding; make referrals whenever asked for, or needed. Postpartum support is important if only to de-stress a household and assist moms and dads to rest/ sleep. We assist also with day to day household chores; baby care; have access to community resources; facilitate learning of new parental skills; and provide links to social support which is clinically proven to decrease postpartum depression.

I would highly recommend contacting your local doula association, attending a childbirth education series that focuses on empowering women to birth and breastfeed, continuing education, and if you have a chance to go to any workshops, lectures or attend a La Leche League meeting do so, before your baby is born. The knowledge gained is invaluable, and can help mothers to achieve successful breastfeeding and as a result, a healthier family.


Great Expectations
Lamaze Childbirth Education and Postpartum Doula Agency

Tina Dala
DAE Chairwoman ;
LCCE; DONA-CD
& postpartum doula
h: 780-435-4806
c: 780-919-0499