by
Donna Norris, IBCLC, RN

Hello,
my name is Donna Norris and I am a lactation consultant and a
mother/ baby R.N. A few years into my lactation practice I
received a call from a young woman who I will call Carrie, who
wanted desperately to breastfeed but had never been pregnant. She
had undergone a hysterectomy for uterine cancer in her twenties,
and was unable to conceive a child. Her sister in California had
agreed to undergo invitro fertilization with sperm from Carrie's
husband, and carry a child to term and then give up the infant to
Carrie and her husband for adoption to raise as their own. Carie
sought out my help to bring in a milk supply so that she might be
able to at least partially breastfeed.The baby was due in just
a few weeks, so we had very little time to plan. I instructed
Carrie on use of the SNS (Supplemental Nursing System), and
Carrie planned to use it in the delivery room when the baby was
first born. All went as planned and soon Carrie was home with her
new baby. I assisted her with fine tuning the use of the SNS, all
the while warning her that she may in fact never produce any
breastmilk for this baby, and that her joy needed to be derived
solely from the act of being able to put her baby to her breast
to feed. I explained that the suckling action was the trigger for
the hormonal secretion to occur form Carrie's brain that could
eventually trigger milk production, but given all that she had
endured it was a long shot.
Carrie used the SNS faithfully for 6 weeks for all of her
baby's feedings, including the night feedings. She was dedicated
and focused and committed to feeding her baby at the breast,
while holding hope that breast milk might be produced. After 6
weeks she came in to see me, and we marveled together at her
perseverance, noting that the SNS was often cumbersome to set up
and use each time. I examined her breasts at this point, and when
I attempted to hand express from her breast white milk squirted
across the room!!!! We both jumped up and down! Carrie had
produced breast milk! She had coaxed her body into doing what she
knew it could do, despite living with the knowledge that her body
could never produce children. She was ecstatic. And though she
never went on to breast feed her baby, she had accomplished what
she had set out to do, and went on to enjoy all the benefits and
joys of motherhood.
Donna Norris IBCLC RN
lacrn@comcast.net
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