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A Treasure Left Behind

By Cynthia Wilson


 

This is my story after adopting now two beautiful baby boys.  Our second adoptive child we picked up from the hospital only 2 days old.  Sean is 16 months and James is 3 months old.  This story is about James.

It was a sunny Friday afternoon when we received a life changing phone call.  "Hello, we have a fragile 6 pound Cocaine positive baby boy we are trying to find a home for, would your family be interested?"  

Tears immediately began welling up in my eyes.  I began to speak without thinking..."Yes!" I said, "when can we pick him up?"  Less than 2 hours later we put this precious little child into the back seat of our van.  The car seat overwhelmed his tiny bent body.  He hardly made a sound.  It was as if he had fallen from heaven's gate into our lives.

Looking into his big brown eyes I wondered how anyone could leave him behind?  I'm sure his mother must have thought of what was best for him and put her feelings aside for his well being.  He left the cold sterile hospital with nothing, not even a name to call his own.

Suddenly a new race was set before us.  It was to spoil this beautiful baby boy with adorable clothes and soft warm blankets.  But first a name of honor for this little one.  Finally after a night of debating back and forth my husband and other two children decided upon the name of James Aaron.

Some have said this child is so lucky to have a family like ours.  I beg to differ.  For we are the lucky ones.  He has blessed out lives with his love, his delightful laughter and his heartwarming smiles that have literally brought tears to our eyes at times.

 What joy we now experience after 3 years of disappointing lost adoptions.  Our hopes would soar high until that crushing phone call to hear "I'm sorry but they have chosen someone else for this child" This always seemed to be the case in the private adoptions we were involved in.  Finally we decided to try a different direction.  This new avenue is called foster care / adoption. 

We now have 2 beautiful adopted boys, Sean and James.  They will now grow up with my other 2 children, Daniel and Brittany.  These boys will have double the hugs, double the kisses and double the love with our family.  My husband and I now have the privilege of sharing our lives with these children who hold so much love in their hearts for one another.  Truly, what a great treasure and heritage we have found in them.