Returning to Work
by Amy Spangler
Excerpted from Amy Spangler's Breastfeeding: A Parent's Guide

(Continued from Breastfeeding
and the Working Mother - Planning and Preparing to Combine
Working and Breastfeeding)
During your pregnancy and maternity leave, you laid out
your plan. You and your baby have learned to breastfeed. Now it
is time to put these plans into action.
2 weeks before your scheduled return to work:
Discuss your plans with your supervisor. Assure her/him that you
will be able to maintain your milk
supply along with your daily and
weekly work schedule.
See how much time you will need each work
day to wake, dress,
and feed yourself and your baby, and
travel to child care and
work.
Let your baby-sitter and baby spend time
together so they can get
to know each other.
Begin to establish a milk expression
schedule, if you will be
expressing milk at work.
If you will not be able to express milk at
work, drop1 feeding
during the day and introduce a
substitute so that your milk supply
has a chance to adjust.
Allow 3-5 days before dropping another
breastfeeding, if
needed.
Introduce a substitute to your baby at the time
you would
otherwise breastfeed.
Start making extra meals for you and your
partner and storing
them in the freezer.
1 week before your scheduled return to work:
Continue your expression and breastfeeding
schedule so that it will
be close to what you will be doing
when you return to work.
Leave your baby with the baby-sitter for a
few hours 2-3 times
this week so they can get to know one
another better.
Hold a dress rehearsal of your new morning
routine 1-2 days this
week and make changes as needed.
Try to get plenty of sleep so that you are
ready for your return to
work.
When you return to work:
Take it a day at a time. If work has piled up while you
were away,
relax
and do your best to catch up.
Breastfeed your baby right before you leave him with the sitter.
This
will limit the amount of milk you will need to express while you
are
apart.
Express or breastfeed according to your
established routine. You
will
probably need to make small adjustments depending on your
work
schedule. Try to pump or breastfeed a little early rather than
a
little late. Many times the hours rush by, and you may find
yourself
having gone longer than planned. Unfortunately, if you do
not
express or breastfeed, you will be uncomfortably full, your milk
supply
may decrease, and you will have a greater chance for
leaking
or a breast infection.
Breastfeed your baby right after you return from work
If
your
breasts
are very full or you have a long commute home, may want
to
breastfeed before you leave the child care center. Ask your
child
care provider not to feed the baby for 1-2 hours before your
planned
return, so that he will be ready to eat when you get there.
Breastfeed more often in the evenings and on weekends when you
and
your baby are together. This will help to maintain your milk
supply.
Talk to your supervisor about how things are going. Be positive
and
thankful, but also be realistic if there are difficulties.
Take care of yourself - commit to getting enough sleep and
eating
a
healthy diet.
Give your baby at least one substitute feeding each day during
any
days
off work (weekends, vacations, holidays).
Regardless of how well you prepare for your return to work,
there will still be a period of adjustment. Excitement,
nervousness, guilt, sadness, and joy are a few of the emotions
you may experience. These feelings are normal. With time you
will adjust priorities and establish routines, and your
confidence in your decision will grow. Support and encouragement
from people around you is important, so don't hesitate to ask
for help.
Any amount of breastfeeding is wonderful. More important how
long you breastfeed or how often is that it be enjoyable for
mother, father, and baby.
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