Non-sexual as "Turn On's" could be token either way.
Seeing other women BF in public. Hearing other people's triumphs. Intelligent people who actually try to help. Righteous people. Those whom strive for what may be called unachievable.
Please ask before assuming. I don't want to make an ASS of yoU or ME. The more you ask and truly try to see through another's eyes, the more you will understand.