01/31/2008 14:33:41

THANKS FOR THE INPUT I BELIEVE I'M GOING TO DO IT I TOLD AN OLDER FAMILY MEMBER THAT THE THOUGHT WAS THERE AND HE ALREADY STARTED ON ME WITH HIS OPINION AND THEN MY 88 YEAR OLD GRANDMOTHER WAS TELLING ME TO WAIT TILL MY LITTLE ONE IS 3 JUST WAIT TILL SHE'S WALKING AND STARTING TO TAKE CARE OF HER SELF. BUT THE WHOLE POINT IS SHE'LL HAVE SOMEONE TO PLAY WITH AND GROW UP WITH. I THINK MAYBE THE BEST THING IS NOT TO MENTION IT TILL I AM AND THEN JUST LET PEOPLE KNOW THAT I'M THE ONE WHO GETS UP IN THE NIGHT AND I'M NOT HURTING THEM ANY. MY MOM IS ALL FOR IT. YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT EVERYTHING THOUGH WE'LL NEED A BIGGER CAR AND THE BOYS ALREADY SHARE A ROOM SO WHAT IF IT'S ANOTHER BOY WE'LL HAVE TO COME UP WITH A WAY TO ADD ON LATER. WHO KNOWS I JUST DON'T THINK A PERSON SHOULD HAVE TO FEEL BAD ABOUT WANTING MORE KIDS I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT'S WHY WE'RE HERE. NOTHING WE LEAVE BEHIND WILL MATTER BUT OUR CHILDREN AND I DON'T WANT MINE GROWING UP SPOILED. GOOD LUCK TO YOU