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feeling lonely
Posted On 06/13/2008 21:19:00 by Jessie81

Being a SAHM is great dont get me wrong I wouldnt trade it for the world...  But I am lonely for adult interaction.  DS has been very clingy lately so getting work around the house done is pretty much outta the question.  Weathers been crappy so if we get outta the house its just for a quick tour of the mall or Target-this is getting expensive.  I havent found a mom group near me yet.  DH works 5-6 days a week for 11+ hours a day and my friends all have jobs too so they just want to go home after work and relax.  DH and I did actually get to go on a date Friday for a couple of hours... it was so sad  :(  I had nothing to talk about! -other than DS that is.  I feel that I am a very boring person now so even if I were to visit with friends they would be bored cuz I am boring!!  What am I gonna do??



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From: Landonsmilkmaid
06/16/2008 00:40:41

I understand what you are feeling! Check into a library program, that way you are having some interaction with other adults, and still being with your child. My hubby and I haven't been on a date since are last Anniversary last July, so I can relate. I don't know if you have an exercise routine, but I love to go for a short walk when my hubby comes home. It gives me time to refresh, and he gets a little special time with the children. It is hard though, to do, because he works 12 hrs days. Curves for Women is a great workout, too. 30 mins. ladies only. It is a great place to make new friends.  I loved it. Ours closed due to the owners health problems.



From: Jessie81
06/15/2008 20:53:35

grumpy wrote:
ya not boring im sure!!! you have got to try and have a little you time so when babe is a sleep.....instead of housework...read a book,invite someone round for coffee....start a coffee morning for mums....each take turns each week...use this time while you are not working to re_invent yourself. dye your hair flamingo pink......that'll will give you and hubby something to chat about.....do anything.and remember you are a fab mum .


Wow pink huh?  I think hubby would have a heart attack!  DS wont sleep anywhere but on moms lap so I do get to read, take a nap with him or watch a movie.  Thanks for the advice.


From: grumpy
06/15/2008 18:19:56
ya not boring im sure!!! you have got to try and have a little you time so when babe is a sleep.....instead of housework...read a book,invite someone round for coffee....start a coffee morning for mums....each take turns each week...use this time while you are not working to re_invent yourself. dye your hair flamingo pink......that'll will give you and hubby something to chat about.....do anything.and remember you are a fab mum .



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